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Bout this whole site 7/24/2004
As I've been working my way through Toronto Swingers
I've managed to meet lots of people. Unfortunatley
many of them seem almost obsessed with only speaking with/
meeting with only doing so with the ones they already know.
This idea is just dumb because the entire point of the site
is to meet up with more people. SO why not even just try to
be nicer and open up to new people on the site. ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
21 Votes
,7.21 Score
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Why is honsety so hard? 7/24/2004
Why is honesty so hard?
Lets face it we are all here for the same thing, either it
is sex, a relationship, or it is just sex. So please lets
all be honest with each other from the beginning, either
you want to meet for just sex. or you want to meet and start
a relationship, or it might even be both. I have talked with
a few that it was said to be one thing and it turn out to be something ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
22 Votes
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cupids and compatability charts 7/23/2004
Not really rant so much as advice but as I've only seen
comments here on the subject, this is where I'll post
it.
<br>
Many are new here on Toronto Swingers and this is more or less directed
to them for informational purposes.
<br>
It seems that many people are concerned about the cupid
matches and the compatibility stars when they see a profile.
Since I have a standard ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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%: RE: Do people know how to READ 7/23/2004
You put together a very well written and thought out article.
<br>
I have several minor (or major) observations and facts
that I believe should be pointed out.
<br>
1 - Your profile is very well written and describes exactly
what you are looking for and who should not bother to reply.
Many profiles on this site have no substance or information
about what is or is not ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
15 Votes
,6.50 Score
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Re: Is Chivalry Dead? 7/22/2004
No, but I’d have to say it is on the endangered species list!
Not because few men poses it, or know of it. Rather, because
few women truly understand or value it. Look at the typical
male/female relationship. If a guy is nice, courteous,
giving (other then financial), attentive, loyal, and
displays an undying love he is considered week or a push
over. Women claim and whine that they ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
13 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Re: False hopes 7/22/2004
You make a great point, however based on my experience when
creating a profile, sometimes writing less can be more.
I'm not attracted to men with facial hair and I wrote
NO MARRIED MEN, or a more polite, "Sorry, but I'm
not interested in meeting married men" in my profile.
When my profile first posted, I received several rude,
mean spirited emails from men that apparently read my profile ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
12 Votes
,6.33 Score
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Re:It's Unfair that the Seeker Sees Your Pic Online But Not Willing to Share His 7/22/2004
I agree with you 100%!! I think it's funny the excuse
about "privacy" etc., as if you're going
to take out a full page ad the second you receive it (how vain
can one get?) Myself, I have had only a couple of men bme a photo. One accused me of looking for Bradalk
at sending
Pitt...NO, I just don't want to feel like I have to put
a bag over his head! A different man stated that he could ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
10 Votes
,6.57 Score
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MY EX_WIFE 7/21/2004
The marriage began to fall apart in the summer of 2002. It
stated when my wife accused me of having an affair. She asked
if I liked her friend Denise, and I said yes as a friend, but
nothing more. After she heard that she went wild!!! She
struck me several times, destroyed my computer, and punched
our infant while trying to strike me. After about
ten minutes of this I called the police, ...
0 Comments, 121 Views,
23 Votes
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Why can't I buy it??? 7/20/2004
I just finished checking out the link to the shop, and it
puzzles me. I'm old enough to walk into a store and buy
whatever I want, so why do I have to be 21 to order anything
from this site? I think if I'm old enough to buy it in
person, I should be able to shop for things I can't find
in my area from the privacy of my own home. Tell me what you
think!
0 Comments, 1 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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The reason why! 7/20/2004
Another rant from the peanut gallery.My title the reason
why I invite women;couples to my network first most of the
time, to find out if there is any interest at all.When I
invite a person or persons to my network, I read there profile
to make sure we are somewhat compatible, no sense writing
a long story about myself to someone I know will not respond.Once
a person is in my network or I am ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
18 Votes
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Real old profiles! 7/20/2004
Here is one way Toronto Swingers could get rid of old profiles.Gold and
silver members pay for the service of the web site, so most
no problem, for anypeople do not spend money for something they will not use.Standard
membership is free, Standard member
should be a 6 month or 1 year limit, and when someone does
not open their profile within certin time frame, profile
deleted.I´ve seen profiles from ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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It's Unfair that the Seeker Sees Your Pic Online But Not Willing to Share His 7/19/2004
I have a complaint that I'm sure a lot of people encounter.
I'm speaking on behalf of the women here since I am a
woman. You post a pic with your profile, a man likes what
he sees and contacts you, fine. You respond to him and ask
him for a picture of himself. He turns around and says "if
we meet you I guarantee you won't be disappointed,
no one ever was. or... I feel uneasy in showing ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
29 Votes
,7.35 Score
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Waiting for replies! 7/18/2004
Ok, is it just me or do other people get fed up sending out
e-mails and invitations to your network and then wait days
to get a reply? I have got 20+ people in my network and have
spoken to a grand total of 3 of them! So what did the rest join
for, the hell of it?? What are they waiting for, christmas?
They must have joined for a reason, assume something caught
their eye, so why the ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
34 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Do people know how to read???????? 7/18/2004
OK, honestly what is up with people who cannot read a persons
profile? I am very honest and upfront about the fact that
I am a Full Figured woman. The words Voluptuous, Full Figured,
Caucasian and many more are just some of what I cant figure
out why I get emails from people who are very interested
in getting to know me, but when I send them pictures they
tell me I'M Fat? Come on ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
21 Votes
,6.71 Score
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Re: Do People know how to READ? 7/18/2004
This is my take on the question "Do people know how
to read"?(a person's profile on Toronto Swingers)I concurr/agree
with the author of the original article...entitled:"Do
People Know How to Read?"
I am also a "fuller figured", but not obese,
tall, shapely, attractive, "volumtuous"
woman that is very passionate, I possess a great personality,
and I love people....especially MEN. I consider myself ...
1 Comments, 73 Views,
12 Votes
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Re: answer the winks 7/18/2004
On this profile I am a standard member. I have recieved several
winks from other standard members. I enjoy the attention
so please do not get me wrong. I do however have a question
or two that perhaps you can answer for me.
<br>
One is since I am standard member, and am not allowed to
contact you unless you write an e mial for me to reply to,
how do you propose I answer you. ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
14 Votes
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Ladies..Answer the Winks!! 7/17/2004
When good fortune fails to rain down on us all, and we are
reduced to sending "winks" to people we would
love to contact. This isn't because we are too cheap
to buy a Silver or Gold membership. I have had both premium
memberships and I always start my approach with a wink.
If you respond, I will too!
<br>
When someone sends a wink, it is like that sexy stare from
across the ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
22 Votes
,5.29 Score
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Is my libido too high? 7/16/2004
OK, so here's the deal; I love sex when I'm in that
relationship 'zone' where we both feel comfortable
with eachother. The only problem is, do I want sex too much?
If your with a signifigant other, you should be able to jump
eachother's bones whenever the mood calls for it right?
Apparantly not. See just as women have flucuating hormones
that sometimes just calls for 'no sex', men have ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
7 Votes
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%: Follow up to the Cock Nazis 7/16/2004
I agree with your article, but I would have to add in several
other factors like size, weight, race, looks, age and cup
size to name the biggest ones.
<br>
It seems that many people are more concerned with appearance
than what really matters in a relationship of any type:
compatabe attitudes, similar interests and likes, personality,
and yes intelligence. Granted everyone has ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
1 Votes
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to all the bitchers 7/16/2004
Ok, I have been reading a lot of the articles in here and one
thing really stands out....what are all of you bitching
about? The way I see it is this...Im not on a "sex and
swingers" site to find prince charming. Its fun.
I have noticed that men and women piss and moan about people
not being honest in their profiles. BIG DEAL. I look at it
this way, If I see someone that I think I ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
8 Votes
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I Found " I Don't Know" 7/13/2004
For all of you fine folks out there who raised their
this will ring a bell..
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For year we have had a bounty out for I Don't Know..Remember
him?.... who broke that? "I dont' know"
Who said that "I don't know"
<br>
It has taken years to find him but we finally tracked him
down. He is employed by Toronto Swingers. Now we know why everything is
getting screwed up over ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
18 Votes
,6.13 Score
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Are guys just desperate or can't they read? 7/13/2004
Put up a brand new profile. Stated specifically what I am
looking for :An occassional afternoon intamacy with select
males, preferabally married. All correspondence through
e- mails.
Specified from past experience what I did not want do
not want to be part of threesome or moresome, hunting fishing
, camping buddy or to chat with you all the time on the phone..
<br>
Guess what ...
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34 Votes
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Response to cock nazi (passion8lover8) 7/13/2004
Are you for real? And in case you are wondering, and if you
could hear my tone, it would be sarcastic. I read your profile,
merely out of curiosity, after reading your rant. Your
profile reads that you are a model. It must really bother
you that other women that you find not attractive have preferences,
like penis size. So, even though you are a model and probably
consider yourself to ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
16 Votes
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Uncle Festus, can you please be silent? 7/13/2004
You sound like an educated snob. Just because you are university
educated doesn't mean that you have more insight.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that there
is harmful bacteria in feces. On the other hand, if there
are two consenting adults that want to have anal sex, so
be it, what is the big deal. Most people use a condom to protect
themselves, unless you know the history ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
14 Votes
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Poor Standard Members Reply 7/12/2004
Ok, this is just a reply to an article I just read and voted
on regarding the treatment of Standard Members. Let me
say upfront that I'm not one of the complainers and
yes I am a Standard member. What I don't understand
is one of the issues the article brought up and that was the
fact that the author did not want to be contacted by those
s/he did not know. I thought that was the reason ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
27 Votes
,6.92 Score
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RE: Use the dictionary if you have to! -- petite 7/12/2004
According to Webster's Collegiate Dictionary the
word petite has two meanings: (listed in this order and
with these numbers)
<br>
1. (1784) having a small trim figure.
2. (1926) a clothing size for short women.
<br>
The meanings don't necessarily overlap. e.g. a woman
that wears a petite(2) dress may or may not be petite(1)
herself depending upon her figure. A ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
8 Votes
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why are you mad? 7/11/2004
I dont understand why people get mad when you ask for a picture.
If they contact you or you contact them, how can you tell
if you could be attracted to them. I would not meet a person
based on there spelling. Would you?
0 Comments, 10 Views,
14 Votes
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inter-racial couples 7/10/2004
Why do most people have a problem with inter-racial couples,
the couple obviously care for eachother and are comfortable
with the idea, so why do people seem to have such a big problem
with it?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
22 Votes
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People not wanting to meet from this site..... 7/10/2004
Why is it that there are lots of people on this site but yet
not many of them are wanting to meet? You talk to several
people and they all seem interested yet they are not the
least bit interested in meeting.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
33 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Re: Anal Sex 7/10/2004
Dear Backdoorpleez, I'm at a lose to figure our which
side of the fence you are straddling. As we are not fans of
anal sex (surpise, a male not into anal sex) I can't
quite grasp all the mystic in ramming ones member into the
tail pipe of a loved one. Perhaps, it is my education that
has given me insight into the bacteria that exist with in
the large intestine when there is a god given, ...
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21 Votes
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